dream ,
i keep having dreams about you -.- i really hate it cos i wake up hella fuckin sad . but idk , they say when someones in your dream their thinking of you . but i really doubt thats true .
Jayla, you’ll have to read this. ALL of this. o_o
actually…it’s not so much that “when someone’s in your dream they’re thinking of you” but more so “what you dream at night is what your unconscious mind really wants/worries about.”
There’s actually a scientific explanation to all of our dreams :D I’m a Psychology Major.
So this is a simple explanation of what goes on in our head. there are two minds running at the same time, though the mind isn’t necessarily the brain itself, it’s an intangible “thing” that exists within the brain…meaning it’s not physical (cool huh) now.. these two are separated into the conscious and unconscious.
The conscious mind is what I’m using to type this post and also what i do while I’m awake. Basically who you “are” when you’re up and about.
The unconscious mind is what keeps things in check and everything else that we dont really use on a daily basis so that would be memories, repressed feelings, hidden thoughts, unknown fears, etc. We cannot control the unconscious mind ourselves, and normally we’re not aware of what goes on in there. But the unconscious is who we truly are (which is why most psychologists prefer having you sleep, wake up and tell them what you dreamed of)
now.. when the conscious mind goes to sleep (when we go to sleep), the unconscious mind runs wild, which is pretty much what we see in our dreams. Normally, each dream we have is linked in a certain way (if you actually wrote down what you dreamed of right after you wake up, and do that for a month, you can see a pattern).
For example, If i had too much fun partying out one night and completely forgot to do my homework, sometimes i would have a dream that i forgot to do my homework to such an extent i wake up, and realize that i needed to do my homework. that would be the unconscious mind warning me.
For your dream, it’s most likely a repressed feeling. You probably still really love this guy, but your conscious mind cant put yourself to letting it hurt you. Also because of everyone around you asking if you’re alright or say “oh im so sorry, he’s an asshole anyway.” (which doesnt really help, i dont do that) So as much as you keep saying “i dont like him, i dont need him, i dont want him, etc.” you actually do, but you’re just protecting yourself by saying that, which is perfectly fine.
There. All explained :]
:) this explains a lot of my dreams.
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